Hey everyone,
I just thought I'd share some God reports. Some sweet things have been happening lately here.
Community Since we’ve been here God has been amazing about bringing people into our lives. When we first got here we basically knew two people in Vancouver. After about a month here God led us into a Bible study. It’s basically made up of 4 different young couples including us. The group make-up is really interesting too. Two of the women in the group were new to coming to Christ and one of their husbands wasn't a believer. It started out as sort of a normal Bible study, good discussions, lots of questions, fun times getting to know each other. It was good, but we were a little frustrated that we weren’t really going too deep with each other. Honestly we really were longing for a taste of the transparency and brutal love we have with all of you. It was tough going from a community like we had back in GR and then having to start over from the beginning.
However over the past month or so we’ve seen God move in some incredible ways with our group. Just around Halloween we finally had a huge discussion about spiritual warfare which is something that we didn’t really know how to talk about with everyone and that has lead to some amazing times of discussion and prayer. Also about two weeks ago Chris made the choice to follow Christ. Amazing! Such a victory because he has so many amazing gifts and is such an incredible guy. It was so encouraging and special to celebrate with him as he made this leap. Seriously, at times when you’ve believed for so long it’s easy to forget what an amazing energy and beauty and enthusiasm there is in new belief—it’s been so cool to look back with him at where he’s come from, and to see the ways the God has always been pursuing him.
Also recently we had the chance to really enter in and fight against some specific attacks together at a group and spend some time praying into a deep bout of depression that our new believer friend’s wife was going through. It was the first time that someone in the group had to be really transparent about something that was difficult to share. It was so tough, but God brought her through in a pretty amazing way and really used her husband’s new faith to help both him and her through it. It’s still coming but it was great to have a taste of that true community. That sense of “this is what we’ve supposed be doing for each other.” It was there and we’re praying for more of those moments.
There’ve also been so many small and beautiful answers to prayer in the group. Everything combined has introduced us on a whole new level of intimacy and hopefully we can continue to grow and go deeper with each other. Last week we one of the other couples Phil and Corina were married! When we were there I really got the sense that it wasn’t just a celebration of their relationship, but God’s way of celebrating some of the things that he’s been doing in the larger community. So yeah God had been pretty faithful in surrounding us with new joys, victories, challenges and it’s been great because they’ve been those types of moments that are so perfectly timed and accomplished that you know that it’s the hand of the Father at work.
Prayer
Adjusting to life as apprentices has been difficult at times. Financially we’re always on the edge but God has answered some prayers for us lately brining unexpected gifts just when we were at our breaking point. We’ve been starting to tithe regularly and it’s felt good to get into that discipline. Please pray that God will continue to provide and that we can stay faithful in giving even when we can’t see how we’re going to make it.
The apprenticeships have also been difficult in different ways especially for Jacqui. Before we came out here we thought that along with the less fulfilling hours spent in the box office and in house managing duties we’d really have a chance to act and use some of our skills on stage. This has been a mixed bag of expectations. I got to start the season off with a show and have been kept busy with artistic projects of our own. I’ll probably be in the last show of the season too.
Jacqui has had a tougher time. She was turned down for a role in a play called The Hungry Season, and mostly likely won’t be in a show until May which seems a long way off. Also, the May show while still being a great show is going to be cast mostly from University students and all the apprentices will be in it—which sort of feels like “Oh well everyone’s in this one so you are too.” With this she feels like there’s nothing special for her to own for herself.
This has been a blow to Jacqui’s confidence. It’s not that she’s really ego driven and only wants to be on stage. Not at all, it’s just been difficult dealing with the disappointment of not being able to use her gifts. And along with that there have been many attacks of: “They didn’t choose you because you’re not good enough.”, “You aren’t talented.” and “You don’t have a place here.” It’s so hard to battle through this. I can’t really describe in writing what it’s been like for her: discouraging, disappointing, emotional are all adequate words. We know we’ve been called here to Vancouver for a reason, but lately for her there’s been some struggling to understand what that is exactly. This has been on her heart for about a month or two now, but she didn’t really want to say anything to the people at Pacific Theatre about the direction her apprenticeship is going.
However, just last week she and I finally had a big truth talk with Rebecca, our sister-in-law and head administrator at the theatre. It was a difficult talk to have, but in the end it was good to be honest and trust the people we work with and to receive our honesty. So now things are more out in the open, but the reality of the situation still remains for Jacqui. So please pray that God will give us perspective and that God might give us creative opportunities in other areas and also that we’d be protected from the attacks and the lies that come out of something like this.
Well those are the major things going on right now. We miss you all so much and will be thinking about all of you interceding for you in the coming days, weeks and months. You are always close to our hearts!
Love,
Ryan and Jacqui